A Womans Boudoir Experience in Edmonton

Experience

Dec 11

Before going into the boudoir session I was feeling a ton of mixed emotions. Anxiety, fear, excitement - so much more, too. The last five years of my life have been a journey with a lot of highs and just as many lows, which have greatly impacted my confidence. I was nervous my photos wouldn’t turn out, or that people would be more concerned about the extra few pounds I have from having a baby this summer. I guess I was worried people would see me how I can see myself sometimes, too. Having gone through all three shoots, I feel so much happiness and peace when I see my photos. I can see how my nervousness turned into confidence going from the first shoot to the third. I feel sexy, and confident, and empowered. For one of the first times in my life, I truly feel at ease with my body, I feel beautiful. Allie gave me so much encouragement during this process too, and I truly couldn't have made it here without her hyping me up!

I was afraid people would see the flaws that I see everyday versus everything good about the photos, or that I'd not be able to shake the nerves and seem at ease. For these things I journaled like a mad man! Allie's Boudoir Prep guide 100% saved me as well when it came to do's and don't before my shoots, as it gives all the ins and outs on how to prep for an upcoming shoot. In the guide Allie has a "flattering all figures" section that I especially appreciated, as she goes over possible ideas on ways to make you feel your best. Having gone from a small to a large/extra large, I found this especially helpful in finding outfits that made me feel good! Making sure to take extra self care steps.

It can be so much fun to fall in love with yourself all over again. Every time I’ve struggled with self confidence, it’s been a battle to teach myself how to love me again, wherever I may be in life. The boudoir sessions, the uplifting comments, the community of powerful, authentic women has been so beautiful to see. I feel less ashamed for wanting to embrace my sexuality, because Allie embraces it in a kind, beautiful way and she's created a huge community of like minded women. I don't have a lot of close female friends, so it's been so beautiful to see so many women just appreciating each other for who we are.

If you’re hesitant, Write it all down. Let out what you’re afraid of, but also write down all of the good that can come from that fear! Allie has a way of capturing you in poses that look natural to you. She has an amazing sense of what will work with each individual, and she encourages you to pick a style that makes you feel sexy and beautiful! There is never a better time than now.

How many women actually do want to do a boudoir shoot and are too afraid to take the first step. So many of us are still stuck in the early 2000's mentality that we need to look a certain way to be beautiful, and it just isn't true anymore. It's also heartbreaking to realize how many women have the same fears as me. It feels less lonely, which is something I didn't expect.

ADVICE: Breathe through it all, babe. You only need to do what's comfortable for you. Maybe that's a lingerie set, a tshirt and cute panties, or full nude. You are in total control. This is a beautiful experience, and I promise you'll not regret it. And trust me - even if you are nervous, or sweaty(like I was), you’ll never be able to tell in the photos :P

I feel more at ease with myself, mentally and physically. I feel more comfortable in my skin, and around my partner. I still want to embark on a fitness journey, but it's no longer because I'm unhappy with my body. I'm no longer in a rush to get to any specific place other than healthy. I've had such a confused perception of my body, and it feels like everything negative in my head is calm, and finally at peace. I feel happy with myself, for the first time in a very long time.

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